Valmiki Ramayana Yuddha Kanda Sarga 17 Shloka 16

तेन: by him, परुषितः spoken to harshly, दासवत् treated like a slave, अवमानितः having been put to shame, सःअहम् that I, पुत्रांश्चदारांश्च: sons and wife, त्वक्त्वा: giving up, राघवम् of Raghava, शरणंगतः came for protection.

"Leaving my sons and wife, I have come for protection of Raghava having been put to shame by him (Ravana), spoken to harshly and treated like a slave."